Saturday, March 31, 2012

New Benchich!!!

Guest Blogger Mike here...

It's official!  Another Benchich (this makes 4 total) has been born at the Dhahran Health Center!  Since Elisabeth is stuck in the hospital with no internet access, her lucky husband gets to give the initial update...

Catherine Blakely was born perfectly healthy on March 31 at 3:28am.  She weighed 6lb 13oz and was 19.75 inches long.  Mom did a fantastic job delivering Catherine naturally and is doing very well staying at the hospital for the next couple nights.

Elisabeth's parents arrived in KSA just in time.  I brought them home from the airport at 11pm and we were in the car headed to the maternity ward an hour later.

I'm sure Elisabeth will want to write more when she's back online, but for now enjoy the pics!
What a cutie!


                                         Very happy under the heat lamp.

                                          Proud big brother Everett.

                                          Lawrence was very interested in yelling at the baby.

                                         Dad's happy family.




Friday, March 30, 2012

UPDATE:  We are heading to the hospital...cross your fingers everyone!

First day of 100 degrees

We all knew it was coming...the heat arrived today!  Actually, it's been surprisingly mild so far - mostly 70s and low 80s on the warm days.  And then BOOM - 100 degrees today!  I've been told this is more normal for this time of year;  the winter was unusually warm and the spring has been unusually cool.  (In other words, winter and spring were about the same temperature.)

It really didn't feel like it was going to be that hot, and even when it was during the heat of the day, it was hot but not HOT hot.  Even nine months pregnant, I was not all that uncomfortable.  I didn't realize it was so hot, and I sent my poor husband outside to assemble some of our outdoor furniture.  Dutiful as ever, he happily complied (and then complied again when I was horrified when I realized how hot it was and said come back inside).  It only lasted about an hour at that temperature, and now at 10:30 pm it is already back to 75 degrees.  

I still say BRING IT.  I can take you, heat!  Cold-blooded Elisabeth is not afraid of you!  Ha HA!  

PS  Getting contractions regularly every 5 minutes as I write...Gramama and Grapapa are due in from the airport any minute...now I am "allowed" to have the baby...major things about to happen???  Stay tuned.  I will post again if we go to the hospital.  No extra post means we all got in safe and contractions did not amount to anything, and we all went to sleep.  I'm 39 weeks today. 

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Welcome to our newest addition!

No, it's not a baby....well, not a human baby anyway (yet).  Our newest addition is a giant red Chevy Suburban named Rosie.  Welcome, Rosie!

Lawrence shown for scale.


We really got Rosie to be our protection from the scary, horrible traffic outside of camp, and because she is big enough to hold our entire family.  While a beloved vehicle, poor Clyde can only hold two adults and two car seats at a time.  So we had to get something bigger before next week.

Rosie is a comfortable, inviting vehicle.  She is an '07 and was recently shipped in from Houston, so she came with all the familiar bells and whistles, like a speedometer with mph instead of km/hr.  (However, this turns out to be terribly inconvenient, since all the speed limits are in km/h!) Other advantages include the fact that she doesn't care if you go over 120 km/h; Clyde and all other Saudi vehicles ding at you when you go over 120 km/h - ding, ding, ding, like you've left the headlights on - which is really annoying.  I'm glad Rosie won't be doing that.  But the radio only registers odd numbered stations, i.e. 92.3, 92.5, 92.7, etc, and all the stations here are even, i.e. 92.2, 92.4, 92.6.  Argh!  Well, it will be CDs for us then.  Not that we were listening to the radio that much anyway.  Aramco does have a good radio station that we like, but we are usually stuck with Wee Sing or Raffi or Disney.  She's got a sunroof and dual climate control and seats eight people with room to spare.  Sorry, Clyde, you're a camp car now.  Rosie is our go-to-girl from now on. 

Ironically, we are now the proud owners of FOUR, count 'em, FOUR cars, but we only have ONE AND A HALF drivers!  (Mike says I only count as half a driver since I can't drive off-camp.)  Hah!  Time to pare down.  Anyone want to buy a gray 2005 Toyota Matrix?  We'll give you a good deal!

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Baby Update

T-minus 17 days.  Wow.  Here we go!

Baby Girl is doing great.  She weighs approximately 3 kg, plus or minus 500 g.  (That’s 6 lb 6 oz, plus or minus a pound.)  My doctor visits are pretty dull…they just check out the baby on the low-tech ultrasound machine and say ‘everything looks great!  Come back in a week!”  Here is a picture of one of the ultrasounds.  I never did get the scanner to work, so I just took a picture of the picture.  You really have to use your imagination.  You’re looking at her face.  (Clearly.) (That was sarcastic.)

Maybe this helps?

I am also doing well and feeling good.  I am tired a lot, but probably mostly because I am hauling two 30-lb boys up and down the stairs more often than I would like.  Sleeping is difficult, but I was expecting that.  All I’ve got is a few ugly varicose veins, but everything else seems good.  I don’t even have cankles! 
I got a nice compliment from a friend yesterday that I don’t look pregnant at all from the back.  Here is a belly picture of me from yesterday.  Am I a whale??  (I sure feel like it!)  Judge for yourself.  I feel like I waddle, but my friend swears that I don’t.  I’m glad she thinks so!  

Honestly, it really doesn’t feel like we are getting ready to have a baby.  I don’t think I am mentally in the right place yet.  We have been so busy with getting settled in here and dealing with the shipment, that this pregnancy has really fallen by the wayside.  It’s just been an extra inconvenience on top of everything else.  I have not had a good chance to revel in the uniqueness of my situation, nor to contemplate the enormous ramifications of what’s getting ready to happen.  Plus, I am used to seeing my beloved doctor once a week at this point.  Chatting with his nurses and the receptionist, going through the routine of an appointment, even the smell of his office seemed anticipatory before.  Without all that, it’s easy to think that this really isn’t about to happen.  But it is!  And soon!  I better get my mind in the right place, pronto.  

We’ll keep everyone posted on any new developments.  Mike says I am not going to go any time soon, because I am always exhausted and I have not had that burst of last-minute energy.  You know, the kind that kicks you into gear to take a sledgehammer and crowbar to your moldy bathroom tile walls because they desperately need to be replaced, all on the day before your son is born.  Or the kind that gets you to drag an 8x10 wool rug down the stairs and out onto the driveway, and proceed to wash it with a hose and Woolite the day before your second son is born.  He’s on the lookout for the next big domestic project….but I’ve got nothing.  Yet.  

Happy Equinox!

Happy Equinox, everyone!  Hooray for the first day of spring!  And days longer than nights!  

As long as we are on the topic of astronomy,  LOOK UP!  In the western sky just after sunset, there are two very bright stars.  They are really Venus (the brighter one) and Jupiter (the fainter one).  They are really close together in the sky, and it makes for a lovely view just after the sun goes down and the sky is still slightly twilight.  They have already passed their closest approach, and Venus will now move down toward the horizon and leave Jupiter behind. 

If you have a pair of binoculars and a clear evening, check out the moons of Jupiter.  If you balance your binoculars on something stable (say a railing or even a tree branch - just something that won't move while you're looking), then it's really easy to see the four pinpoints of light near it.  Sometimes you might only see two or three, if one of the moons is behind or in front of Jupiter.  If that's the case, just wait a few hours, or until the next day, and try again.  They move quickly (as Galileo found out). 

Happy looking!

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Shipment Update

Just wanted to let everyone know that yes, the shipment did arrive, and yes, we made it through move-in day.  The computer got lost in the fray, so I have been unable to update everyone on our progress until just now when I found it again.  The mess is unbelievable.  They came in and emptied out all the boxes - dumped in piles on the floor - and left.  We are slooooowly sorting through everything and putting things away. I will post the pictures as soon as I find the camera. 

But to sleep in our own bed again!  Ahh!  And the house is not nearly so loud and echo-y now.  And we have our patio furniture, so we can enjoy the lovely weather.  It's great all around!  Just a week or two more for us to absorb everything, and we'll be in business. 

Two thoughts I will leave you with.  First, it feels SO much better to be here and have our stuff back.  Feels familiar in this foreign land.  Feels like home.  But at the same time, it's sad and scary - feels like "now we live here."  It's a feeling of permanence.  There's no going back now.  Home has been re-established, and we live in Saudi Arabia now.   

Monday, March 12, 2012

Red Letter Day!

Today was a red-letter day!  For three reasons!

1)  They had pimiento cheese at the commissary!  WOW!  The poor guy who was restocking the dairy cooler as we walked by...here we come around the end of the aisle, with Everett happily chattering at the top of his lungs, Lawrence screaming and crying because he doesn't want to sit in the cart, and then as we pass the milk, I cry out (probably too loud) "(Gasp!) Pimiento Cheese!  YAY!!"  I think we all three startled him - especially my outburst. 

2) Immediately after that, we walked on a little further, and lo and behold!  The heavens opened up and light shone down and strains of ethereal music wafted our way...they had honest-to-God Kraft shredded sharp cheddar cheese!  And it's not expired!  Double WOW!  I was so excited, I almost didn't care that the two cup baggie was $10 - almost.  I did buy one, but only one.  It will be rationed very carefully.  To me.  The men in the house still love to eat that nasty square cheese, so they can have that instead. 

3) As soon as we got home from the playground today, which was noonish, the phone rang.  The guy asked for Mike, and when I told him that he was at work, he said that our shipment was scheduled to be delivered tomorrow at 8:30 am...was that ok?   YES!  YES!!  It's GREAT!  We will be here!!  <click> and that was the end of the conversation.  So we will get our stuff TOMORROW!  We spent the evening tonight emptying out the Company dressers and desk, clearing out the living room and garage for staging areas, and sorting out all of the borrowed toys we have to return them.  Tomorrow morning we will get up, strip all the beds, send the kids off to preschool and friends' houses for the day, and re-absorb all of our stuff.  I hope it's easier than moving out was!  The things I am most looking forward to are actually not the biggest stuff.  It's all these little things that we have missed the most:  wastebaskets, bath mats, and coat hangers are the most talked-about around here.  I am also really looking forward to having our own bed and sheets again.  And the TV.  And more than four forks.  And my flip flops.  And the rocking chair.  And the rugs.  And the patio furniture.  And the wagon.  And the outside toys.  Well, ok, and everything else. 

I do think we did a super job of packing what we needed, considering what our limitations were.  If we had to do it all over again, I don't think we would change much.  We got all our Christmas presents in the checked bags, we planned well for the E-box, everyone has had enough clothes and toys, and we've had our computer.  It's been a long haul, but given that we have basically lived out of a suitcase for 2 1/2 straight months, I think we have fared pretty well. 

More news tomorrow, if we are not too tired!  A long day is ahead.  I will take pictures of before, during, and after.  Keep your fingers crossed for us that nothing major or important or sentimental is lost or broken in the shipment!

PS Was talking with a friend from the playgroup, and she said that the customs officials like to turn boxes upside down and open them....not good for our deep fryer oil problem!!  Yikes!

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Another Trip to the Beach

This weekend we went to the Company-Which-Must-Not-Be-Named Beach.  It's only about 20 minutes away from our house, so we just spontaneously jumped into the car and went.  We went on a Friday morning, which is like Sunday morning, and we were the ONLY people there.  The boys had a ball, and they spent most of the time on the enormous playground.  Then we spent some time walking on the shore, but the water in the Persian Gulf was too cold to get in.  It was great family time!  Here are some highlights from our trip: 


All of these pictures are worth clicking on to make them bigger!  
The details are hard to see in these little thumbnails.  


Environment immediately off-camp.  Lots of power lines and garbage all around. 
Also immediately off-camp.  More trash. 


Trash again.  Keep your eyes peeled for camels!

Camels!  A lot!  Do you see them?



This is the interstate we take to get from our compound to the beach.  We are going about 70 mph.  Yes, that is a car going the wrong way on the interstate.  Coming toward us at roughly 70 mph.  Mike was in the right lane, but he got over to the left lane to avoid this dimwit.  This is why we need to get a giant tank of a car!



This is my favorite part of the drive.  It's just so incredibly FLAT!  Flat, flat, sandy desert.  There's nothing here.  The reason it's my favorite is that you can really tell just by looking that this used to be the sea floor.  It looks like a sea floor!  It's really easy to imagine the ocean above us.  Think of all the Triassic, Jurassic, and Cretaceous fish that swam right here, only just above our heads. 



Definitely zoom in on this one!  It's worth it!  Read at least to #10.  (The blue blocks are where I blurred out the company name.)

One of the many playgrounds at the beach.

Lots of beautiful jellyfish on the shore that day.  Everett's refrain was "Mama, is that a jellyfish?"  "Yes."  "Is it dead?" "Yes."  "Mama, is that one a jellyfish?"  "Yes." "Is it dead?"  "Yes."  Repeat 250 times.
 
Digging in the sand.
 
Looking for shells with barnacles.


On the beach!

And on the way home, we were treated with more camel sightings!

Clyde's Face Lift

Oh, Clyde.  How jarring it is to see you every day and give a little start that your hubcaps were stolen...only to discover that they are really there, they are just BLACK. 


Well, I decided that I couldn't live with the black hub caps anymore.  We were at a store called Saco World the other weekend - it's kind of like a hardware store, toy store, and furniture store all in one.  I saw a shelf of spray paint while we were there and invested $2 in some silver gloss.  Fifteen minutes during naptime and voila!  Clyde looks much better!


Not a bad job, if I do say so myself.  You're looking much more respectable these days, Clyde.  Now, when the children shout, "Clyde!  I see Clyde!" when coming out of the commissary, I don't cringe anymore.  Phew. 

Monday, March 5, 2012

The Boy Who Lived...in Saudi Arabia

So I realize that it's been a while since my last blog posts...I've been delinquent for the last week or so.  There's a reason for this!  Mike and I made a commitment to watch all of the Harry Potter movies, in order, one every night, for eight days.  This has sucked up all our evening time, but it has turned out to be really fun.  Here's the (long) back story:  (I am only going into all this because it has been our whole life for a week now, and I am totally subsumed into HarryPotterville at the moment.)

I saw Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone in graduate school.  I was dragged there by a friend who swore that I needed to see it.  I had never heard of Harry Potter before that, and I was skeptical.  She was using all these words I didn't know, like quidditch and muggle.  ("You have to see the quidditch scene!" she insisted.)  Turned out that I thought the movie was great!  I was really pulled into the story.  And music by John Williams, no less!  I went right out and bought the book.  And I thought the book was great, too.  So great that I bought the next book, and the next.  I think I was on the fourth book when the second movie came out.  It was ok, but not exactly like I imagined.  And they left out a lot of details from the book.  I went ahead and read the fifth book, but when the third movie came out, I knew it was a mistake.  I was disliking the movies because I had read the books first, and I already had a mental image of what the scenes looked like when I walked into the theater.  My general complaints were, "That's not how I imagined it at all."  and "They left out so many things."  I decided that I liked the first movie and book because I experienced them in that order - movie first, then book.  That way, the scenes didn't appear wrong because I had never imagined them before, and when I went back and read the book, I was happily enlightened to even more details than I had learned in the movie.  So I quit reading and began waiting for movie releases.


Movies take a long time to make and to release.  I have been waiting for a long time.  So long, that I gave up waiting and just decided that one day, after the last movie was out, I would go back and watch all the movies in order from start to finish.  That way, I was not hanging in suspense for years on end while I waited for the last movie to come out.  Unfortunately, by the time the last movie came out this past summer, it had been more than a decade since the first movie and our lives had changed so much that it made it hard to actually GO to the movies.  Instead of a free and independent graduate student, I had a full time job and a husband and two small kids and I was deathly sick from bring pregnant with the third.  So my plan went unfulfilled and the last movie came and went without us even noticing much. 

Then for Valentine's Day, Mike suggested that we watch them all now, and that we make time to do it.  So that's what we've been doing.  We have no TV, so we watched them on our laptop.  It was a small screen, but it was really fun!  And I did like the movies, right up to the last three minutes. Then it all fell apart. 

NOTE:  The following is commentary on the plot!  I think I am the only person on Earth who didn't know what happened to Harry Potter in the end, but just in case you also do not know the end of the story, do not read any farther!

The last three minutes - WHAT THE HECK?!?!  OK, so we spend all this time and energy working to defeat Voldemort.  At last, Harry has his epic battle that we have all been waiting for.  And there are NO witnesses, NO swelling of music, NO sigh of relief, and NOBODY seems to notice??  Not to mention nearly everyone of importance is already dead, a la X-Men.  Harry defeats Voldemort in the courtyard by himself, walks inside to the Great Hall, and everyone is having tea and chatting.  He doesn't tell anyone what just happened.  No one seems to know or care.  He gets a cursory hug from Hagrid (I was expecting more since Hagrid just bore his dead body back to the castle), and then he stands outside with Ron and Hermione.  This is where we needed John Williams back!!  Where is the emotional musical theme that overwhelms the viewer with pride and a sense of accomplishment and memory of the journey over seven long books?  And then it's 19 years later  - he married Ginny and Ron married Hermione (oh, please!!!  Life is not that neat and tidy.  ugh!) And it's over.  Harry Potter saved the wizarding world, did what no other wizard could do, was braver and truer than anyone, was famous the world over, and he end up as some regular middle man accountant pushing beans at the Ministry??  What??  It's all just too FLAT for me.  All that emotional investment.  And temporal investment, too!  We all knew that Harry would win, but I think it still deserves notice from those around him.  What a cruddy ending.  Come on, J.K. Rowling - this is a seven-book SAGA.  Give it a proper saga ending.

Ok, enough.  One more Harry Potter thought, though.  About two weeks ago (before we started watching the movies), Mike came home for lunch one day and said "Well, it happened again."  He told the story about how he was in some meeting with people at work, and somebody was there from another department.  When he got introduced, the extra person said "Benchich.....how long have you been here?"  When the answer was two months, they said "I know that name...Larry Benchich!  Are you related to Larry Benchich?"  Of course, that was Mike's dad who used to work here for 20 years.  Then they usually proceed to ask about his family members by name and tell stories about his dad.  This happens all the time.  "So good to have you back, Mr. Benchich" and "I remember your father, Mr. Benchich" and "You'll do great things, Mr. Benchich."  Sound familiar?  Mike noticed at lunch that day that you could scratch Benchich and put in Potter.  Forget Aladdin - Mike is really our own Harry Potter, "the boy who returned." Or better, "the boy who lived...in Saudi Arabia."

Hopefully the ending to OUR saga will have a really great soundtrack.